To get a photographer or not?? That is the question?
Madhujit and I at first decided against a photographer… why? Well, at first they are expensive and tend to be bossy ( view from a few weddings that we attended). Secondly, between Madhujit’s and my cameras (regular and otherwise) we have the correct equipment to take nice pictures…
We figure ask a few close friends not in the wedding party to take the pictures for us… of course with practice using the equipment first! But my mother, though she means well, is trying to confuse me… what if these pictures do not turn out, yada yada yada…. then I get worrying - I want memories to share with my future children and grandchildren… so now I have to think about it… but then - once I start thinking… I get these issues that include going over budget and … you get the picture!
One couple we know said to the mother, if you want pictures you pay for them… but then we still have the attitude to deal with - we want the event to be important, not the pictures…
More and more issues to be solved….